I used to fret about spending money for HELP.
I judged it as an “extra” that is not worth it, and that came from how I was raised.
I used to choose to save my money for an epic vacation, because I was literally desperate to escape and have a break from the deadness, depression and pain of my daily life.
I certainly don’t regret going to Fiji or the Galapagos…
I chose to take trips rather than spending money on the invaluable help that would actually transform my life into something more alive, more aligned, more me…
There's no desperation for an escape when you create a life that you love living.
There's only wonderful trips that add to the zest of life...
I also used to think I could do all the growth work on my own, alone. (that’s a trauma response)
And I spent years repeating patterns, suffering in on-going pain, thinking I had it together, yet feeling miserable relationally, erotically, socially, and in my work…
I deluded myself into thinking I was growing because I’m so… insightful, successful, empathic, deeply feeling and present in so many ways.
All the while, I was actually just avoiding facing my deeper truth and doing the work because jumping in with someone, being seen in that level of vulnerability, and making changes that will rock the boat... all that is scary AF.
I still get stuck, stagnated, reactive, triggered, caught up in stories and trauma, and lost.
And now when, not if, I need help, I get it! I work that shit out with someone who can help me, so I move on to enjoying life.
That's why one of the most impactful realizations I’ve had in the 18 months is that getting support is totally worth every penny spent.
It comes back exponentially as unimaginable gifts.
As I started to ask for help, to commit to paying serious money consistently for all kinds of support and guides (business, somatic, relationship, erotic, expression), and to truly trust other people to help me... my life continues to open, blossom and take me on epic adventures without the long plane ride.
So, where are you stuck?
Are you putting off addressing your life because you’re afraid to be seen in the muck, or to feel the trepidation as things change?
I want to take the journey with you.
As direct as I can sometimes be, I'm also so safe and warm... and I'll hold you with so much care as we open into the truth. (So many people I've worked with say this to me.)
If you’re a women who’s identifying with this in some way, it’s time to stop thinking about taking action and start taking the actual action steps.
Set up a call with me.
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