My lover and I have a container for a relationship check-in every week.
It's important to us to have a regular, safe place to keep communication current.
I have learned that spending dedicated time each week expressing gratitudes, desires, unexpressed issues, and favorite moments from the past week is a great way to keep things fresh and alive, to feel more love and to get super connected.
It's also a place where we can safely share about our relationship challenges, knowing that we are both dedicated to receiving each other deeply and leaning into trust (rather than triggers).
Our weekly check-ins raise our energy, turn us on, make us laugh and cry, and attune us to what we love about our WE.
We get to remember why we're together.
One of the prompts today was "something I desire is..." and I got very excited when I got clear about and NAMED my desire...
MY DESIRE IS ALL ABOUT PENETRATION
I want to integrate the part of me that wants to penetrate and the part of me that wants to be penetrated. And I want this experience to feel turned-on, relaxed, creative and inspired.
The part of me that's a fierce, masculine DOM loves to penetrate the f*ck out of things...
I get off on being productive, showing up, being fully present and solid AF, catalyzing energy to move and evolve, catalyzing OTHERS, holding impeccable space, initiating things, transformation, and getting the sh*t that matters - done.
I like to ride the powerful wave of flow that inspires me and makes things happen for me and others.
Note: When I'm in my flow, I don't like interruptions or to have anyone slowing me down, so get out of my way.
(Some of this is a classic Manifesting Generator from a Human Design perspective.)
The part of me who surrenders into her feminine loves to be absolutely penetrated deeply by life (and by my lover). She wants to soften open and relax into bliss.
She yearns to be exquisitely pressed past all her resistance and tension into devotional submission. Yum.
She is wildly creative and unpredictable.
She's velvety soft and also ...terrifying.
Her truth is raw and real. She'll tell you like it is. She sees and feels everything.
She is discerning and sources from within.
She is delightfully silly.
She's a witch.
She's devoted to love.
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I am both.
My ultimate desire now is to trust, express and to be ...both.
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WHAT'S SOMETHING YOU DESIRE???